I have a question for you...
Is there something that you could not forgive? Is there something for which there is no going back? Is there some wrong that keeps you from loving someone?
Does Grace move beyond forgiveness? Are there things that you can forgive but not reconcile with another person over?
These are hard questions if we dig deeply in our hearts.
Personally, if someone hurt either of my babies intentionally, especially abusing them, I would need God's amazing power to find an ounce of love, mercy, and Grace within my heart.
What's amazing about Grace is that God is doing this every day.
Perhaps believing in God is one thing...but believing in Grace is another adventure of itself!